Cocktails with Dr Charley Ferrer! Answers to Readers' Questions, LIVE CHAT and PRIZES!

Martini à la Colette: Very dry and a little dirty
Greetings, dear readers! 
As promised, we have a unique Cocktails with Colette in store for you this week!  Dr. Charley Ferrer - America's Intimacy & Sex Expert - has just left filming a segment for The Dr. Oz Show (to be broadcast next month) to join me here and shake up more than just cocktails with answers to some of my readers' questions submitted over the last several days - and y'all were not shy!

Dr. Charley is a world renowned Clinical Sexologist and Sex Therapist, as well as the award winning author of over thirteen books on self-empowerment, women’s sexuality, and BDSM. Her upcoming books include 30 Shades of Kink and Sexploring:  30-Days to a Better Sex Life.

Plus Dr. Charley will be joining me for a LIVE CHAT - THURSDAY NIGHT - at 8:00 EST! 

UPDATE:  If you missed the chat, no worries! We have a recording for your viewing and listening pleasure! BE WARNED: It is "no holds barred" and the questions and answers can be extremely graphic.

Here is the link:

She will be answering more of the questions we have been receiving from all over, but also she will take any questions LIVE - asked either by calling in or typing the question into a special chat. Remember: No topic is taboo for Dr. Charley! (Wish me luck...), Dr. Charley and I will be giving out all kinds of prizes - BUT you have to sign up in advance for the chat to be eligible for the prizes!  Here is the sign-up information:

Doctor Charley will also be giving away a Grand Prize worth $350, but  you must register to be eligible.

These questions from readers will give you a preview of what you have to look forward to tonight (and why my cheeks are burning!). Now is YOUR chance to find answers to any of those intimate or
embarrassing questions you have always wanted to know but were afraid to ask!

Ask Doctor Charley

Question: Hi Dr. Charley, I've been married awhile, but I really like giving my
husband BJs. When I'm with other wives, they always complain about it like it's a chore, and I once read that no woman really likes to give BJs. So why do I like it?
The other problem is that giving him so many BJs gives me TMJ - LOL! Is there something I can do so doing it doesn't mess up my jaw?

Answer:   There’s nothing wrong with your desire to give your husband a blow job—oral sex. As with anything else in life, desire to do so is key. So many women enjoy fellatio; others don’t. The key is to want to do it.

Yes, often the semen doesn’t taste great; however, there are a few products on the market to help mask the taste; and of course, you could always bring your lover to the point of ejaculation and capture it with your hand, have him mark your body with it, or let him release into a towel.

TMJ…well that comes with the territory. Chuckles. To alleviate any discomfort, it’s all about the practice. You can take two aspirins before time as well to alleviate any discomfort. (Not prescribing medication here just noting what you’d do anytime you have minor discomfort with muscles.) 

Question: Hi Dr. Charley, Is there really such a thing as female ejaculation? A couple of friends have said it has happened to them and how much better it is than just cumming. I don't think I could cum any harder! and if that happened to me, I would be afraid I had just peed on myself!

Answer:  Yes, there is such a thing as Female Ejaculation, however not all women experience it and even those that do, do not experience it all the time. Additionally, some women enjoy the sensation and others don’t.

Female ejaculation often occurs due to a simulation of the G-spot. You might experience the brief sensation of needing to urinate; however, the ejaculate that the body produces is not urine. The ejaculate can range from a tablespoon of fluid to a ¼ cup. It varies. Female ejaculation can occur during certain sexual positions, thus again, making it random.

It can be a little embarrassing the first time it happens. Talk with your partner about it. If it happens often, keep a few extra towels or linen handy. Urinating before intercourse can help alleviate your anxiety and ensure that your bladder is empty.

Two great resources for information on this topic are: The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality by Alice Khan Ladas, Beverly Whipple, and John D. Perry; and my book The W.I.S.E. Journal for the Sensual Woman which is geared to provide you with the insight and comfort you need with your own body.

Review my page below to get a list of other possible books.

Here is a sample of the other questions Doctor Charley will answer during the Live Chat tonight:

Question: Can you really get throat cancer from oral sex like Michael Douglas claimed?

Question: I saw you describe yourself as a Domme. What made you decide to become a Domme?
Hitler was a sexual submissive. What would you have done to him if you had the chance?

Question: Why are some men so interested in having anal sex?

and many more.....

Doctor Charley Ferrer has been featured and interviewed by the NY Times, Comso, Men’s Fitness Magazine, Fox News and El Diario La Prensa among others. As a freelance writer, Doctor Charley’s articles have appeared in various local and international newspapers, magazines and websites including El Diario La Prensa, Latina Magazine, and Fox News Latino just to name a few. Doctor Charley conducts various self-empowerment and educational speaking engagements at Universities, Hospitals, CDC events, as well as private and non-profit organizations throughout the United States and Latin America.

She is the founder and Executive Director of the Institute of Pleasure, whose primary mission is to provide education on relationships, mental health services to men and men, and conduct research on sexuality. Dr. Charley is a repeat speaker on sexual health and reform before the World Congress of Sexology and the International Congress of Medical Practitioners and Sexologist in Latin America. She has also been invited to speak before the Sexology Community in China. Doctor Charley has been recognized as one of the Groundbreaking Latina in 2006 for her work in Sex Education & Health.

Doctor Charley conducts several TV and radio talk shows in both English and Spanish.  Her TV Talk Show,  Caliente with Dr. Charley was nominated for Best TV Talk Show by BronxNet in New York City in 2007 and nominated for the Alliance Community Media—Northeast Region Award in 2008.

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